Updated: Nov 7, 2020
“The ordinary are here to fit into the world; the extraordinary are here to create their own worlds.”~ Matshona Dhliwayo
A mundane life is no man's dream. The desire to have, the desire to want is an innate instinct in us all. But it is not more that we want, it is the extraordinary that we seek.
Having many of the mediocre does not carry the value of one extraordinary thing. If you were to make the choice between having one hundred ordinary friends and having one true companion what would you choose?
The answer is clear, the one, the extraordinary is what we all seek. What is the path to the extraordinary then?
The only path to the extraordinary is to become the extraordinary. It has been said time and time again, in different ages, in different nations, and in different tongues— things of the same are attracted to each other.
For instance, if you want a truly magnificent relationship that lifts you up high in the sky and makes you feel like in a dream, be a truly magnificent person and a truly magnificent person like you will come your way.
Don't be like everyone, don't think like everyone, don't love like everyone, or you will have what everyone has. If that's what you’re after, then go for it, but if it is the extraordinary you want, you cannot be the same.
Start by identifying a quality that you love in yourself, and be sure that it is something that affects others positively too, like generosity for example.
Take this trait and ascend it to the next level. Make it something that people identify you with to the extent that they remember your trait before your name.
Remember to choose a noble characteristic, one that is not solely centered on you, and you will see that things will start happening in your life. Rare opportunities will come up your way -opportunities beyond your dreams!
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